never take empathy for granted

you dont know how lonely it feels to not have people fucking understand. 

be gracious

recently a boy came into my life

and im sure theres always been a boy

but this boy…he was more male than usual more testosterone, more penis?

anyways he compliments me exuberantly and we got in a lil verbal scuffle about me accepting the truth about myself. his compliments isnt a web of lies they are spun from truth and i need to be GRACIOUS about it

women you want a man that will tell you that you look nice and that he noticed ur hair cut.

please. be gracious when the universe gives it to you

b confident

rebelgirl-:

be confident enough to do what u feel like, what u can and

 best of all..What you must

do not boast. you will be shot down

 but do not b  led to believe that you cannot so much so that you do not.

b  bold  enough to know how far fast and  high you can soar. these amounts will change  at different times. be conscious of this.

enjoy yo self lol

on kisses

What if kisses burned. like they left a most painful scar but upon being burnt by a lover’s lips your brain produces an endorphin rush and so the kiss experience is actually like a drug. do you think we’d be more careful about who we kissed and who we let kiss  us? or do you think we’d get addicted and become ugly from the scarring?

inspire and be inspired. simply put.

life’s to short for complicated  stops and periods

live unregrettably

i love little children’s view on life

i love how out right and intentional they are with their actions & how they dont let anyone let them feel uncomfortable. They speak their mind and they say what they mean. they fight back. they rebel. they’re rude. they just dont care as much. and sometimes you need to take a page frm that book because sometimes…we need not care as much.

Be EXCITED*

call her as soon as u get in the car. dont wait till u get home

act crazy around him on the 1st date

say ” i love you” first

dance in the (non crowded) street

stop playing it safe. You might waste an opportunity or you might end up getting hurt. but so WHAT. im sure it ill be all worth it. LIFE IS FLUID even dieing requires some motion. society says its impolite to be excited because its one of those emotions that u cant control once its out the bag. but fuck control. sometimes u need to just feel…

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Its Okay to Be ALONE*

* alone is defined as being without other people present. sounds to me like there’s nothing wrong with that. i find that its actually healthy to spend some time by yourself. stating that. LONELY and ALONE are two different words with two different definitions and i believe, should not be used synonymously. When they are, LONELY brings a negative connotation to ALONE and thus people achieve the thought that being alone is a bad thing.

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Be RUDE*

* rude

BE RUDE, but not unnecessary. HONESTLY being “rude” is something society created so people wouldnt have to face the truth. to be rude would mean to embarrass people or to put them in their place or simply just be truthful. recently even constructive criticism is considered being “rude” like are you for real? more people need to say what they mean. stop beating around the bush and definitively stop sugar coating things. we’re all grown up and as we are, CLEAR COMMUNICATION is drifting farther away from us. BUT. dont be unnecessary. yes some truths can be embarrassing but to abuse a person is just UNNECESSARY. only say things or behave in a way that is totally relevant

and at all costs….STAY CLASSY lol

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BE bothered*

* let things matter to you so much that they bother you. Care about things and be dissatisfied. anger and frustration and hate are emotions too and deserve to be felt so feel them. i mean…Revolution doesnt come about when everyone’s all happy…and everyone’s NEVER happy. so…”lets start a riot”

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you dont Deserve* this

* people say it all the time. you deserve this or you dont deserve this && most of the time they arent talking about the “hand of cards” you’ve been dealt in life. They’re talking about specific events or actual physical items. eg” you deserve a guy who treats you well” or “you dont deserve dinner tonight” let me just say that. to say ‘DESERVE’ means to say “EARN” and trust me. half the things in life aren’t desserts they are entitlements. i mean after all how do you “earn” a good spouse or how DONT you earn a meal? we arent indentured servants anymore, we dont earn things like meals and decent human  interaction. these are things YOU ARE ENTITLED TO. someones parents and theirs before them fought for our RIGHT to have these things. Just…keep that in mind daily. especially in a relationship with another human. remember what you are ENTITLED to as a respectable human being.

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i can stop when i want* to

* people seem to forget that the above statement is probably 98% true. The fact of the matter is that the person probably doesnt WANT to stop. conversely if they WANTED to stop they would, and could. so When someone says “i can stop when I want to” they’re probably right

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someone has it worse* than you

*this is not an ignorant statement, however i will ask EVERYONE to disregard it for the simple fact that that the statement uses the word “WORSE”. This implies that what ever you’re going thru could be bad, horrible, Miserable,Horrific but that someone else has it WORSE. No ones feelings are invalid and thus this statement should not be used as a coping mechanism or as a coaxing mechanism. You are allowed to have you’re feelings and to feel them. Never let anyone tell you anything contrary.

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Tomorrow Never Comes *

* its a figure of speech with no literal attachments. you see, there will always be a tomorrow and there will always be a today. but tomorrow will never be today and today will never be yesterday. The meaning behind this statement is : LIVE. live ya life TODAY because tomorrow? whats tomorrow suppose to do for you if it never comes.

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Dont LET* other people control your emotions

*yes. you can control yourself. and when u loose control you are now letting someone or something control you. its hard to not let it happen because it almost comes naturally to loose focus of yourself and what you want because the people around you say you’re not important enough. the 1st step is to STAY CONSCIOUS

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